Question. Tonight w wants to go over the stipulation before we give it back to the lawyer. I really want her to know I still do t want this. Is there anything I can say or do? I know everyone always says don’t talk about the relationship but I want her to know I still don’t want this!!!
She knows!
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Even if she knows I don’t want it I feel she needs to still hear it from me.
She doesn't need to hear it. It's you that feels the need to tell her.
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I know if I saw my w hurting and see how much this home meant to her I wouldn’t do that to her. I honestly believe I would have a change of heart. I’m looking for advice from the vets here!!! I think I know the answer but just thought I would ask.
She is not you. It's easy to say what you would or wouldn't do if things were reversed, but you can't pressure her into keeping the house just b/c you love it.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
