I really don't think I can do the "If this divorce goes through I do not want to be friends with you" thing.

It seems so cruel. To cut her out my life after making her part of the centre of my world for eight years.

I don't get the impression she wants to do that to me; well she's never said she wants to in the 3months this has all been going on. I don't think I could handle never seeing her again. I know it's easy to say that now, but we did have a particular connection, as cliched as that sounds, and to close the door on it forever seems too drastic.


Me - 36, W - 32
No kids
T - 8 yr, M - 3 yr
Discovery - 14 May 2019
S - 25 May 2019 & D bomb - 29 July 2019
D & House sale final - Feb 2020