My experience is I know my W has told a lot of people that I've been unfaithful and is getting a D.
I know she's shown her sister, brother, and at least 1 of her friends all the evidence.
She is not broadcasting it on FB at all though. She told me she will not do that.

This is the thing. Lots of people don't know the full story yet.
I think it's normal to feel like you are hiding something. You will get new friends and so will he.


Me - 36, W - 32
No kids
T - 8 yr, M - 3 yr
Discovery - 14 May 2019
S - 25 May 2019 & D bomb - 29 July 2019
D & House sale final - Feb 2020