I think with telling people if you are a private person like me you will only tell people as and when you feel comfortable. It took me a couple of months to start telling people close to me and I did it in a trickle. Part of the reason was shame and embarrassment, but mainly because I’m a private person. Good luck!
Me: early 40's XW: nearly 50 T: 15 M: 5 BD: Jan 19 S:10 SS: 22 SD: 24
