Yeah me too mate. I miss all that too, especially the random acts of kindness/service and the personal jinx moments but try not to think about it or it eats you up. I reckon a lot of this is to do with immediate personal happiness over working things out and having responsibility and a desire to communicate needs clearly.

What are you doing for gal? I’m joining a tennis club this week. Took my sd and s for Father’s Day lunch yesterday and my sd paid for lunch! I find I need to force myself or I just sit at home!


Me: early 40's
XW: nearly 50
T: 15
M: 5
BD: Jan 19
S:10 SS: 22 SD: 24