I am certain that her sister and some of her friends have manipulated her/coerced her in this. She denies it and I cannot prove it, but I don't want to look into it any further. Just a gut feeling.
OK I won't say I'm sad about the house.
We have both agreed we won't fight. At present we are being pleasant and not arguing. I have detached to a degree and not actively spoken to her. Only responded to her if she has reached out. I assume this is correct.
I of course want her to see how I've changed. I'm just hoping that in time she will see this. Whether she regrets the D and selling/losing our lovely beautiful home and putting herself in a very much worse of position (living in a room in her brother's house, no space to run her businesses, taking on extra work she doesn't want to do) is another matter.
Me - 36, W - 32 No kids T - 8 yr, M - 3 yr Discovery - 14 May 2019 S - 25 May 2019 & D bomb - 29 July 2019 D & House sale final - Feb 2020