I am certain that her sister and some of her friends have manipulated her/coerced her in this.
She denies it and I cannot prove it, but I don't want to look into it any further. Just a gut feeling.

OK I won't say I'm sad about the house.

We have both agreed we won't fight. At present we are being pleasant and not arguing. I have detached to a degree and not actively spoken to her. Only responded to her if she has reached out.
I assume this is correct.

I of course want her to see how I've changed. I'm just hoping that in time she will see this. Whether she regrets the D and selling/losing our lovely beautiful home and putting herself in a very much worse of position (living in a room in her brother's house, no space to run her businesses, taking on extra work she doesn't want to do) is another matter.


Me - 36, W - 32
No kids
T - 8 yr, M - 3 yr
Discovery - 14 May 2019
S - 25 May 2019 & D bomb - 29 July 2019
D & House sale final - Feb 2020