I had to contact her this monring (Sunday) to tell her what the bills were for the house. I kept it short and to the point.
Yes I was thinking if I should write a little note to her parents to apologise (they live 200 miles away), but I guess that would not help at this stage.
What I cannot understand is how someone can be in love for 8 years, and then decide they are not in love within the space of 12 weeks. Is this an example of "Don't believe 100% of what they say?"
No, not a good idea to send the in laws anything. DB principles apply to them too.
In my case, my MIL contacted me a few months after BD in a fury about my XW after she found out. I slipped a little in telling her about some of the details (she had been told a fib about why my XW left) and I got a bit emotional (I didnt know about DB principles back then) but finished by telling her I'll be fine, she needs to support her daughter and not be angry with her, and that I'd always acted with honour and hadn't done the things she'd been told.
Me: early 40's XW: nearly 50 T: 15 M: 5 BD: Jan 19 S:10 SS: 22 SD: 24
