It's 5am and I have been up for the last two hours with a headache.
After my BD today I was out of the house until dinner time at which I can home and grilled as planned. I kept the conversation short but polite. W was on best behavior. (does anyone else get annoyed when they jump to attention after some emotional exchange?) I assume that she is mad that I would drop such a revelation, but what does she expect?
This is the most perplexing part of all of this. They make their choices and then when the natural and expected consequences occur, they seem slighted. I read it in most all of the threads. I guess it is just selfishness.
I expect to purpose that we plan to meet to discuss what the next steps might look like. My objective is to handle this in the best possible way but I realize that W will have no idea of what she expects and many covert contracts.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.