Not trying to bust your chops, buddy.

No one knows better than you what the contextual dynamic is in any interaction. Lord knows I have felt misunderstood on this forum.

But I do know this. There were times when I felt empathy for my W. Where I chose to see her in the best possible light because I was so tired and broadsided by the weight of it all. I guess I just got tired of being mad at all that I had discovered and the trust that had been destroyed. That I wanted to make sense out of it all and that I wanted to take the spotlight off of me as some kind of victim. It all sounds altruistic and I can't imagine that I am the only one that has gone through that.
I can also say that it was during this time that I may have said and done or allowed to happen things that didn't necessarily progress my objective.

Just think about it.

Last edited by RR17; 09/01/19 09:14 AM.
M 53 W 54, M since 98
D15, D19
8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM
until 10/14
7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR
12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.