Steve, I have spent the last several hours reading up on your sitch. Much of it seems hauntingly familiar.
My W too plays these games. I didn't think her games had a chat feature. Who knows?
Lately, my spidey sense has been telling me something is up. I can't put my finger on why. Us LBSs just know things.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.