My daycare asked for a family picture too. You are nicer than me! I'm just sending one with my S2 and me. I'll let H know he can send a picture too.
You mentioned you two agreed on custody if the D goes through, if you don't mind me asking, what are you planning to do? And I don't want to alarm you, but him asking to pick her up from school on his days could be him trying to get a history of more child participation to reference in custody negotiations.
I can't imagine having that much contact and having to deal with all of it. I won't allow H in my house now. He didn't want to live here, he doesn't need to be here! He offered to carry S2 to the back door the other day, and I told S2 that he should give Daddy a hug and then I would hold his hand and walk him to the door. I want H to know exactly what a divorce will be like.
Did your H start out monstering after BD? Or has he always just done the confusing, mixed signs thing?
