I disagree with your last point, IMO no matter how you handled it you will still be here right now. I think you’re in a bit of denial right now. Your w has a serious problem. You gave her the best of Steve for a year and a half and it still wasn’t good enough. I don’t doubt she’s saying and doing all the right things and trying hard. This is her third time busted. My questions for you are:

1. You can’t keep her off electronics forever. How will you feel about her texting on her phone in the future?

2. How about the next time she’s late or isn’t where she is supposed to be?

3. What happens if it happens again?

I think right now you’re trying hard to convince us it’s different this time. Sorry Steve I’m not buying it.

IMO you really need a strong plan moving forward. Did you read Accurays thread?