Originally Posted by Ginger1
Originally Posted by Steve85
Originally Posted by Ginger1
What was your boundary the first time around?

Did she cross it?




It was not to get inappropriate with guys online. Yes she did.


When you established that boundary with yourself, did you make a decision on how you were going to handle it if she crossed it?

Ginger, one of my personal growth areas was to not look at the world so black and white. So I'll just say it would depend on the situation. So no, I didn't except to say that it could be as simple as requiring full transparency and IC and MC, it my leaving her. I honestly think that in this situation, ending or marriage would be an overreaction.

Last edited by Steve85; 08/31/19 02:30 AM.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018