Persistent Endurance (Part 6)

[curtis7]

This is just me talking, and I'm really in no position to be giving advise because I'm somewhere between being a hard @$$ wanting respect, and a softie privately because I miss the person that was once there known as my W. But if I even had suspicion of my woman cheating on me, and she had absolutely no legal claim to my property, didn't want to reconcile, didn't want to be my W anymore and she wanted out. I would have told her to GTFO my property until she gets right with God, her ways, and right with her Husband. Maybe prideful of me and gets me divorced, but I don't give a damn if they need space, wants to find themselves, moves away or worse, forces you to move, they can keep it. I may be an @$$hole who has made some bad mistakes in my M and I have to live forever with the guilt of not correcting it when I should have which led me to this, but my self respect cones first. They can stay or go. If they want to go, then they can keep walking. Don't let the door kick you in the @$$ on the way out.

She does have legal claim to the property, but I know where you’re coming from. The cheating is definitely getting to me and prompting thoughts of being progressively mean to her. I’m trying very hard to suppress these thoughts because they shouldn’t be arising if I was more detached.

I’ve been reading HoosJim’s sitch a lot lately and that helped me discover Artista and her posts. Artista’s H basically told her that he thought she had a problem, she needed to get help, and that he couldn’t protect her any longer and needed to distance himself from her to protect himself. I feel like this is where I’m kind of at.