Explain to me exactly what those consequences are.
Hmm...LH, now you’re trying to ruin my night making me think about this. Consequences are NC with me which is pissing her off and perhaps eventually her seeing the destruction of our family that she has caused. Unlikely though as she appears to be dead set on filing.
Originally Posted by ovrrnbw
It sounds like your WW has your place and her own place. That has to be hard for you. She gets what she wants from you and throws away what she doesn't.
Ovr, I don’t see a way around it unless I file to obtain sole possession of the property. We are both on the deed. I’m not an animal hater to just open the gate and allow the horse to trot off. I know her well enough to appreciate that would be an unforgivable act in her mind. I recall you suggesting that I tell her to move it or I sell it off. To me that is vindictive and an attempt to punish her. She’s held me in contempt for a long time about the horse. Even prior to BD, so I’ve tried to 180 on that to be more accepting of her pride and joy. I get it, it is hard when I recognize how she is taking advantage of our success in life and me for only the small part that benefits her.
On a positive note, S8 and I are have a wonderful time at the football game. Big blowout in favor of the good guys.
Me:41 W:39 S:9 D:6 T:20 M:16 PA:8/22/18, BD:11/6/18 PA discovery & IHS:12/3/18, W moves:4/2/19 R’ville:9/27/19, I give D docs:3/1/20 W home:4/5/20 (due to CV-19), W NC w/OM:4/13/20 6/1/20
