Found it strange to read in the divorce papers that my W said "my husband declined marriage counselling." Now, I have *absolutely* no recollection of her mentioning it, though that doesn't mean she said it. It may have been said fleetingly in the midst of a long rant she was giving, and I've forgotten that bit.
But what really irks me is that two months ago she definitely mentioned the possibility of getting therapy together, then when I mentioned it again in July about us getting some, she vehemently refused the very thought of it!! She said, "I don't need that. I'll be fine."
Other than that, had a lovely dinner out with my parents, sister and her H and dog Hugo (black miniature poodle). It was very nice and we laughed a bit. We didn't talk about my situation at all. I was glad.
Me - 36, W - 32 No kids T - 8 yr, M - 3 yr Discovery - 14 May 2019 S - 25 May 2019 & D bomb - 29 July 2019 D & House sale final - Feb 2020