The first thing is to take deep breaths and pause. Don't be in a rush to contact her or make big decisions.
Days into my sitch I rashly decided to Go Dark (similar to Last Resort Technique) when I wasn't ready for it and broke down and contacted her 3 days later. lmao. I probably set my situation back 3 weeks!
Over and over we see folks worsen their sitch with impulsive actions.
I'm sorry you're going through this.
Originally Posted by "Dbx80"
A couple of days later, it was revealed
How was it revealed? There's a difference between her telling you and you discovering on your own. Do you know how long this EA has been ongoing? How did it start? How serious is it?
Originally Posted by "Dbx80"
she refuses to stop texting with him.
How does she justify having an EA while married? Has she told you why she won't stop talking to him?
The more we know about your story the better the board can advise!
