Been away fro a few days. I had to confront her so it would help me move forward. She still denied it to some extent and became very angry. I walked out and she nearly attacked me in the bedroom. I refused to give her my phone and she was adamant about me deleting the picture of the message. That was all the confession I needed. It felt relieving to get it off my chest and to be honest about what I know is going on.
I am going to move forward with GAL and detachment as she knows that I know for sure what is going on. I just pray she doesn't get pregnant in the process as they are having sex every single day and brag about it in the messages.
They have plans to be together. Its just as I thought. He is convincing her to slit with me and then he will split with his wife. She can get a job somewhere else in the county and then they could be together. Spouses can't work at the same school. Especially if they are in an administrative role.
I have decided to let her do everything with moving in the direction of divorce. If she is ugly about it then I will eventually go to the other mans wife to let her know. I will expose it to those that are being hurt. I realized last night just how much hate she has for me for her to have done these things and continue to do these things. I believe divorce may be the only option as I know way to much in order to forgive. IF I had any advice to give others it would be to not dig to deep because what you find may scare and scar the crap out of you.
