I thinks it’s only fair that we speak frankly and honestly to you. I’m pretty sure you had previously mentioned if this happened again you would be done. Not only are you not done you didn’t even take time to think about it. You mentioned above that you won’t tolerate this behavior and are willing to take action. What are these actions? You said she’ll do whatever it takes to fix it yet yesterday she wouldn’t even say hi to you.
I don’t consider that a relationship talk. She has to be accountable for her actions.
She either has a serious addiction or she doesn’t value your marriage. Either one has to be seriously addressed.
I’m not saying necessarily to throw in the towel but I just don’t see how you can ever trust her again.