Sex is both a physical act AND an emotional act. Us HD guys shouls not have to ALWAYS justify sex as some kind of emotional connection. Sometimes, sex should be done for the FUN OF IT. It does not always have to carry some deep significant meaning. When a HD man and Women get together, they KNOW this, that sex can be a FUN activity. Like going out to play a round of golf, or to play tennis, sex is something that should be done frequently for the FUN of it. This is when you can get into LM sessions that go on for hours, maybe even a whole weekend. How many LD spouses want to go to a hotel for a weekend and never leave the room? They always want to go out and see the sights, why not just spend the day screwing each others brains out in as many different ways using as many different fantasies as possible. WHO SAYS IT HAS TO HAVE SOME UNDERLYING DEEP EMOTIONAL CONNECTION EVERY FREAKIN TIME! I think from PM, I can see where once the trust has been established in sex, then this is where the partners have the chance to REALLY expand the envelope of sexual experiences, and believe me, from what I have read, it is not even possible to experience ALL the variations possible in monogomous sex.
