Oz,

Look at these wise words from AS:
Originally Posted by AnotherStander


100% no doubt in my mind you are doing too much. Way too much.


Your response should be "I realize now that I have some things to work on and I am working on them to be a better person."


You are applying way too much pressure.




Visualize this post. Recall it as needed.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712