Meat, I loved this post. This is exactly how I feel re: the desire. Nearly all of my desire is for my husband and driven by him and inspired by him. Some isn't. I am done apologizing for that. It is just the way my body and mind work together. The need for sex that I feel isn't always some lofty, wonderful, idealistic loving need. Sometimes I just want the release.
However, I am not always lofty and philisophical about LOTS of things in my life--this is no different. I am not using my husband, nor do I ever forget for one second who is on the receiving end of my desire. It is HIM that I search out when I feel like this.
Anyway, I just wanted to shout a big Hear, Hear! to you for posting it in such an uncompromising way. I feel the same.
