H wanted to bring dinner over to my place after taking D4 out for a bit last night. I told him I’d see about making it back in time to eat with them, and came back part way through dinner. He was warmer and chattier then he has been in awhile and even slightly flirtatious. My only take away from this is that DBing is having an effect on him. I am focused on keeping my expectations very low (ideally non existent but I’m not a superhuman). I’ve been down this road with him before, so I know better than to be swept up thinking it means he wants back in. But I’m observing.
Hope - this is an awesome post! All at once you observed changes in your H's behavior, you recognized that you are not completely detached (nobody really is), and you took a "curious observer" stance. Well done
