So I’ve been giving nightly back rubs. Which I think she enjoys.
You "think" she enjoys them? I bet she doesn't. If she enjoyed them you'd know it. My XW would moan and whisper how good it felt, until after BD and then it could best be described as "tolerance" until I got the point and quit doing it.
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We haven’t ML again yet. I hope I’m not doing too much.
100% no doubt in my mind you are doing too much. Way too much.
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She has also brought up a couple small things about how I’ve changed and then said “It’s kina been 10 years I’ve been asking for this stuff”.
What she is telling you is "it's too little too late".
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Which I don’t have a very good reply to just off the handle to when she asked why I had finally changed
thoughts?
Your response should be "I realize now that I have some things to work on and I am working on them to be a better person." IE, you're doing it for you, not her. If you're doing it for you it's real, if you're doing it for her it's tricks to get her back.
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So this is the third day in a row she is really late from work
What are her ACTIONS tell you? Sounds to me like she's avoiding being home with you. Why? Probably because you are applying way too much pressure.
Good luck with the MRI, I hope it's all great news!
