I did about seven months after BD and I have no regrets. It helped me face my number one fear...that no one would ever find me attractive again. I think i was able to do it that soon because I’ve technically been living alone for five years and I was just ready to let it all go and move on. It also helped that we had an official separation agreement and my H used the moneyI gave him to buy a house with the OW. After that happened, there was no going back...only forward. If all those things hadn’t happened, I probably wouldn’t have started so soon as it needed to be 100% over in my head. The last thing I would want to do is date someone who is looking for love if I was still looking behind me and wanting to R with my H. I couldn’t do that to someone.
