Sandi2, I did respond to your questions - they're on the previous thread. Sorry, I can't send a private message to let you know this!

I appreciate you taking the time to read through my situation. I know you're very busy and in need on this forum!

Me - 36, W - 32
No kids
T - 8 yr, M - 3 yr
Discovery - 14 May 2019
S - 25 May 2019 & D bomb - 29 July 2019
D & House sale final - Feb 2020