I have already read the book twice....but that was a year ago so maybe I'll read it again (I really can't even begin to explain the difference reading that book made in my life). My wife tried to read it too but she thought it was too complicated, (I am pretty sure she was just being lazy though, she is very intelliget...she married me didn't she??). :-)
Anyway, my situation has DEFINITELY improved over what it once was. My wife (and I) has come so incredibly far since we have been together. I know there is no way to know how it will all end up.
I am no longer looking for any advice. I am still increasing my knowledge but over the past couple months (maybe I should say years) I have become certain of what I need to do for my marriage and what I need from my marriage. I know where my boundaries are and I have grown a backbone about them. The only thing I can really do is just be honest, supportive, clear, and hope that my wife will be able to come to terms with me and my boundaries before it is too late.
However, I am curious to know what you guys think about the original point though.
