Yes LH, I am suspicious as well. I still don’t think she even knows what she wants.
IHC those are some great points. Truely I have no idea about her OP. Around time of BD I saw red flags but found no concrete evidence. I found DB very quickly and stopped snooping. So I really have no clue. I did see her out and I also saw her old hookup from years ago. They weren’t near each other but I found it far too coincidental.
As for hypergamy, although biased I think I’m hard to beat lol. Very physically fit, well paying job, very socially inclined. Dated around 20 girls since W moved out with many of them intending to be more serious than I was lol. I do admit I had really started to neglect W over the past year. So it’s very possible someone who is far inferior to me told her some kind words that gave her the attention she was craving. But yes I have no clue if her fantasy is failing. She did mention to me a week ago, that her mom was really bothering her and she was finding it difficult to live with her. She works a low paying job in an expensive area. I am starting to think the fantasy is ending.
I am in a strange mindset. I don’t trust her and I am really enjoying life as it is now. Her response to my divorce is due within the next week. Is this all a stalling method by her, or does she actually fear that she has lost me. Only time will tell. I think I will observe her actions as much as I can from a distance. Otherwise I will proceed with the D as was planned.
