since she is married on paper, these are not R's she was in. Since at least one of them predated your separation and because you're married, they are indeed affairs. Don't validate them by calling them R's.
PAs with OM1, OM2, OM3 started before WW moved out in April. They are affairs. I wasn’t necessarily trying to validate them, but rather convey the WW belief system to justify why they feel these R’s (affairs) are acceptable while still legally married.
Originally Posted by ovrrnbw
Plan some fun social events for Curtis this weekend. You need some time out with friends and no kids or W talk.
I’m taking S8 to a college football game this weekend. Large scale socialization. Then hurricane prep as there’s a chance I could be impacted. It will be interesting to see what she does with her horse.
Me:41 W:39 S:9 D:6 T:20 M:16 PA:8/22/18, BD:11/6/18 PA discovery & IHS:12/3/18, W moves:4/2/19 R’ville:9/27/19, I give D docs:3/1/20 W home:4/5/20 (due to CV-19), W NC w/OM:4/13/20 6/1/20
