Divorce because I betrayed her trust - THREAD 2

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I am sure you had bigger issues than porn in your M.

It is important that you get to a point where you understand that the she has an EQUAL part in the failing of the M.

Relationships are 50/50.

I think the only other issue was me having a massive case of NGS: Feeling inadequate, always seeking approval, being afraid to try new things, reclusive emotionally, not revealing problems or failings, hiding mistakes.

She is a very strong, heart-on-sleeve person. I envied that about her. She just "did stuff" for the sake of doing stuff, tried things, if they didn't work, she moved on easily.

I suppose a joint failing was communication. She would expect me to know that she was unhappy about something and purposely didn't bring it up until it was late in the day when she'd be more angry rather than have a simple restrained "I'm a little concerned about this" talk.