My question is this - what do you need concretely from her to believe that she is committed to a process of reconciliation? Whether it's going to be successful or not is another story, but that is of irrelevance right now.
I guess I need to see her grasp how she failed to meet my needs, apologize for failing to meet my needs, and do a better job of meeting my needs. And my needs are pretty simple. I need to be a priority in her life, not the last thing on her plate when she's taken care of everyone and everything else, And I need to be treated with respect. That encompasses a lot that I don't need to get into.
M:23 T:26 Me:53, Wife: 60 S:18 D:16 filed 7/16 W moved out 4/28/17
