I'm not going to text if she gets home safely. I will only respond if she texts first. I'm doing this more now. I'm only texting first if I have to get into the house (only she can access the alarm remotely now, and I no longer have a smart phone).
Or don't respond at all to her sometimes.
But defintely go with R2C's advice on friends. I have 0 "friends" that are women. I have a good friend who is "friends" with lots of women, funny how he has slept with all of them.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.