Recap for everyone:

Married 3 years, together 8. No kids.

W discovered I have had a strong porn addiction. Since before we met. She discovered I'd signed up to 2 websites (free), contributed and maintained profiles on these sites, then messaged 2 women in explicit chat/email, paid these two women £60 over 8 months (since September 2018) for photos of them. I also uploaded pics of some of my exes and 2 photos of my SIL from her Facebook page to one of these women in (private) chat - they commented on them all in a sexual way. W asked me to move out in May. I'm living with parents. She's in the house alone. She applied for divorce. I received the paperwork yesterday (28th August). She wants to sell the house. We've had 2 estate agents look already.

I'm getting IC. She refuses it. I'm GALing. She says she wants to remain friends and is "sad everything has happened the way it has."


Me - 36, W - 32
No kids
T - 8 yr, M - 3 yr
Discovery - 14 May 2019
S - 25 May 2019 & D bomb - 29 July 2019
D & House sale final - Feb 2020