I have seen many times on here and in real life that the last ditch effort as a couple is to buy a new house and in essence start over. Once the newness of the house wares off it is back to where you left off.
I understand you may have some guilt but you did everything you could to make up for it. I have heard it been said before that the most important thing in a marriage is forgiveness.
If you haven't already go back and read Accuray's early threads. His W relapsed after a lengthy reconciliation after her first EA.
