She said "Yes I know what you mean. I won't miss how hot it is though."

[It's such a well insulated house that it is VERY hot in the summer, even with windows open!]

I want to reply with this:
"I will miss a lot about it. The location. The kites and dragonflies swooping by. The bees in the garden. The The walks near the river and the curious cows in the fields nearby. The garage. The herbs we grow for cooking. The space. The little animal figurines we placed among the plants. The nice evenings we had with friends. The safe feeling I get when I walk into our bedroom. Being able to walk into town to get literally anything. Having the alarm. The knowledge of coming back after a trip away to a comforting evening of cop dramas on Netflix and chocolate. The fact we ended up with such a wonderful nest that we had never dreamed of getting. The extent that we put our stamp on it in 3 years."

Advice? Is this deemed 'pursuing'?


Me - 36, W - 32
No kids
T - 8 yr, M - 3 yr
Discovery - 14 May 2019
S - 25 May 2019 & D bomb - 29 July 2019
D & House sale final - Feb 2020