Divorce because I betrayed her trust - I regret it

[DaB35]

Yes. I won't contest the form at all.

Your story's baffling in how quickly it turned from what you describe as a happy marriage (May) to divorce (August).

Yes. This is what is on my mind a lot. We were happy. She went from distraught (mid-May, on discovery) to anger (end of May), to calm and much more positive (June), to suddenly "I need space" (July) to "it's over" (end of July).

It's the speed of all this that I do not like. In 3 months she's decided to say goodbye to the last 8 years of her life. It is frustrating.

On the petition, she said that "he declined marriage counselling." I have NO recollection of her suggesting counselling. At all. If she did, I've forgotten it as it owuld have been a fleeting mention, not a lengthy discussion about it.

But as Yorkie says, I don't have much of a choice. Neither of us has the money to contest/fight the divorce.

"I love you, so I'm letting you go. I have not given up hope on you coming home."

I like this. I might send it to her after responding to the form.

Whatever this opportunity is, I hope it does come soon.