A fellow sailor here... been in 21 years and I’m going through the same stuff you are. Different circumstance but same story. If I can offer some thing...living in the past won’t help. The Navy didn’t do this...stay in or get out. She made this choice.
It sounds like you haven’t made the choice as to what you want yet. One day you’re done and ready to never see her again and the next you want to talk about reconciling. WhAt are your goals?
Don’t worry about her...whether she sees the grandkids or not. It’s her choice. You see them as much as you can! Don’t let her negativity drag you down. She does stupid stuff like changing the locks...you’ll be ok. She doesn’t want to see the baby..you’ll be ok.
This is all so tough for us. Get your crap in one sock sailor and be an awesome man!
Don’t worry about your attorney...they have lives too. If they truly are t working for you, then tell them what you need. If they can’t meet your needs then find a new one. You need your goals set to help them meet your goals and needs though.
What was your rate? I’m a MM.
Me40; W38; S12; D9 BD11/19/2018 D filed 12/20/18 D Final 7/2020 Being the best example I know how for my kids to see.
