Steve I’m sorry to read all of this in your situation. It’s crazy how quickly things turn for the better and for the worse.

You’re well equipped to deal with this and you have all of our support. You’re an inspiration to a lot of folks on here. Time to be the lighthouse in your own life for a minute.

Take time, step back a bit and always think “is what I’m about to say or do going to help or hurt the situation?”

I agree with above poster that encourages you to take the passwords and check. You’re not spying in my opinion. Spying is done without the knowledge of the party you’re gathering information on. If she wants to be open and honest, go ahead and try it. Maybe she just makes a different email account; hard to say. It’s up to you to give her the chance again and trust her. It will likely take time. Don’t be rash. You didn’t do all this work over the past 2 years for nothing.

Praying for you Steve.


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