Put another way, an account with a password that your spouse does not know is a secret. And spouses shouldn't be keeping secrets from each other unless you're talking about your upcoming Christmas gifts
H53/W51, R-ing 4/'18
"Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires"-Sg.of Sg 2:7
"So oftentimes it happens,that we live our lives in chains, & we never even know we have the key"-Eagles III 1:3
