Divorce because I betrayed her trust - I regret it

[DaB35]

Yes I could 'contest' the divorce. But then we have to pay fees and neither of us can afford that.
In the UK you can do all of this without speaking to lawyers. You don't even have to go to court. It's all done for you.

I hate that this is happening. I know it's my fault. But I hate the nagging thought that my W's manipulative sister and her friends have just fed her the 'leave him' line for 3 months and that's all she's been hearing so she feels obliged to do it. Awful situation.