Divorce because I betrayed her trust - I regret it

[DaB35]

Thanks.

It's so hard. I keep fantasising about a text appearing on my phone from my W which says "I've been thinking. I think I've over-reacted. Can we talk?"

Yes she isn't being vindictive at all. It just is what you have to do in the UK.

These 7 days will be very hard. I might wait until the last day. I just want some time to think about it. This is worse than the email I got saying she wanted to start D proceedings in the first place. And yes that email did say ILYBINILWY.
She also said it in person when I turned up at the house the day after she sent it.

I remind myself - don't believe everything they do or say - but after receiving that letter, that is very tricky now.