I want everyone to understand, since it is buried back in my other thread. She wants to stay together. While she was initially defiant, she ended up quite sad and contrite. I spoke Frank to her last night. I didn't let her turn it around. I held her feet to the fire. And it eventually got her to understand that her actions were wrong. Even when she tried to bash my snooping I made sure she knew that a redirect like that was inappropriate. "How I found out is not important. That there was something to find out is!"

She eventually got that.

I think the hard part for me is watching her go through withdrawal. It's coming. I have a huge GAL scheduled for tomorrow. Hitting an amusement park with a buddy. I'll be gone all day.

My DBing has been great through all of this including going back to last year. I think my reaction had even proven that I am lovingly detached. I've been a DB Ninja!!

Last edited by Steve85; 08/28/19 05:50 PM.
M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018