13 Let's hope it isn't starting again

[Jac12]

What's the difference between her addiction to this and someone else's addiction to cocaine? I mean, how would you handle it if you came to realize she was a drug addict? Would you set boundaries and try to help her? Detox/therapy or else we're done?

To me, this seems like it's an addiction for her and it's separate from how she feels about you. She can love you and still be addicted to her apps/games.

It doesn't mean you need to put up with it or deserve this but maybe the soft firm approach of "I love you and want you to be happy but your behaviour is destructive to our family. I hope you choose to go to therapy because otherwise I won't stand for this in our marriage. I'll support you through this if you choose to get help."

This is tough. I hope you guys can work through this together.