Steve I’m sorry about this. I’m wondering if your wife simply has reached a stage where she just doesn’t want to be married and just wants a fantasy life? I say that because despite your growth and transformation, her chosen behaviour persists. What more could you do mate?
With WWs, it is all about the fantasy... They have their heads in the clouds and don't think or care about the consequences... Until they happen and they feel the sting of loss. The scourge that is the internet age, and social media, and online gaming is tailor-made to encourage and enable this behavior... It's like the introduction of crack was to cocaine.
I really hope sandi2 chimes in here, but I am afraid Steve's WW, and his MR, may be a lost cause unless she gets a wake up call. No way she can have the respect for him a woman requires to be truly bonded to a man in love/matrimony while she is engaging in this behavior... Especially now that she knows that HE knows...
Last edited by hoosjim; 08/28/1911:49 AM.
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"Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires"-Sg.of Sg 2:7
"So oftentimes it happens,that we live our lives in chains, & we never even know we have the key"-Eagles III 1:3
