Thanks Dan that helps mate. I think my struggle is I’m still foolishly trying to work out what went wrong and why my sitch happened.

Yes I wouldn’t text. That’s pressure potentially. Wait till she texts you. It’s part of the mantra in letting her go to get her back.I know it’s hard mate. I went from multiple multiple texts per day to basically zero, unless it was my XW asking me to do something.


Me: early 40's
XW: nearly 50
T: 15
M: 5
BD: Jan 19
S:10 SS: 22 SD: 24