Hey man, sorry to hear all this. I'd wait for Sandi to chime in before taking any action, but my take is you need to lay down the law. She is disrespecting you, your daughter, and the MR... You and D deserve better. If you still want to try to save the MR, I'd say you need a boundary, perhaps several... You won't share your W with another man, online or otherwise, you won't allow porn or sexting in your home with your daughter, etc etc... And she's, what, a three time loser at this now? She gets herself into IC pronto or you are done, yesterday.
IIRC you had even less separation from your WW than I did before you started piecing,band she faced fewer consequences. IMHO she needs to understand that she can lose her family and YOU need to stand up for yourself. You are a veteran DB-er by now... This [censored], but you are prepared for it and we are with you.
Very interested in what Sandi would have to say so I hope she chimes in.
Continuing to send prayers your way...
Last edited by hoosjim; 08/28/1904:19 AM.
H53/W51, R-ing 4/'18
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"So oftentimes it happens,that we live our lives in chains, & we never even know we have the key"-Eagles III 1:3
