Maybe one of our ex-WW's should pitch in about relapse becaise tgis is what it sounds like. Or maybe it never was over? IDK. But I feel sorry for you man. You've done an excellent job on yourself and your MR. Hats off for that. Tale some distance and think about your next move in all the peace you can find. Hope your D won't be anymore affected with all of this. Be the great dad that you are! Stay strong.
Thanks Petri. I appreciate all of that. Good advice. No need to feel sorry for me, I'm actually in a great place emotionally. I am handling this so much better than I did post BD a year and a half ago. I am beyond needing to save this at all costs. I don't want to be married to someone that can deceive and lie so easily. I don't want to be married to someone that I constantly have to wonder what is up to whenever she's online.
I do wonder how much of this is the Zoloft and other drug clouding her judgement. But only a good psychiatrist would know that for sure.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018