Thanks DS9, she came back as I was using the restroom and typing out my posts. I am calm. made some small talk with my daughter. Wife is on couch, not touching her devices. Weird.
Ok. I don't know how your wife reacts to your telepgraphed emotions/demeanour (whihc you cant see but she can), but maybe the best thing you can do now is kind of act 'as if' nothing has happened, but be somewhat frosty and reserved around her, til you get right back into the Steve85 frame of mind that everyone on this forum turns to.
If she sweats on that, then that may be a good thing - she may worry and want to talk? If she does, I'd just listen, but maybe ask her to explain herself because you don't understand. If she wants a reply, just go into the I need time to think reply.
Anyway, focus solely on your D for now, then as soon as you are able, get out of the house for a while, but dont drive (maybe get a buddy to pick you up).
Remember the prevailing advice here - sometimes its better to say nothing.
Good luck mate
Thanks DS9, more fed up than anything else right now. Just feel like throwing in the towel. Lots to think about with that. I've definitely let her cake eat for a long time. Should never have purchased this house. Just a complete mess right now. Complete and utter mess.
Can't let it affect my job.
Funny she said at least three times how great things were between us. She doesn't see that it was all a lie.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
