We all are human. We have our limits to everything. I think you made the right call to call her out on this. But the question is: what now? Any chance to pick up on the convo later on?

Me:39 W:36
S:12 D:9
T:14 M:11
Separation:sep. 1 2017
D filed oct. 2017
D finalized july 2018
OM confirmed feb 2018
D finalized July 2018

The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.