O......she might have been horny or she could be starting to get those positive vibes back again. Like Sandi said just stay balanced. Continue running, taking care of yourself and just because you had sex don’t go into a full court press being touchy feely or talking about your R or being needy. It sounds like what you are doing is working so continue doing more of the same.
Hi Oz, I hope it's a move forward. Hard to say! In my situation, having sex again w/o kissing felt awkward, but ultimately was on the path to having sex again w/ kissing.
PS she has started complimenting me on my looks again. That feels nice. (Again not reading into it. I’m prepared for her to up and serve me papers tomorrow).
Nice one mate.! I couldn't believe I stooped so low at the time but the other day I saw at Woolies one of those bargain bins and picked up some Nivea refresher face gel for men for $5. I've used it a few times and it actually made me look better! I've never bought anything like this but I thought why not!
Can I ask what's wrong with your wife's back? I've had back issues myself.
It sounds like things are going well for you. Keep your chin up Oz.
Me: early 40's XW: nearly 50 T: 15 M: 5 BD: Jan 19 S:10 SS: 22 SD: 24
May I invite you to review and evaluate my XW in my sitch, subject to your time, interest, commitments etc? I've read a lot of your posts here and would value any insight you could offer. I apologise if my request is out of line or offends any rules here.
Oz, my apologies for hijacking.
Thank you
Me: early 40's XW: nearly 50 T: 15 M: 5 BD: Jan 19 S:10 SS: 22 SD: 24
Lol. No prob DS. I did the same thing for sandis opinion of my W a while back. It’s all good. My wife fell 30 ft out of a tree when she was 11 years old. Her body has hurt since then. She recently had a day with no pain. She almost cried because she said she couldn’t remember what not hurting felt like
Hindsight being 20/20. She was definitely mixed between standoffish and flirting after we ML. very flirty unless I touched too much. Then she would get annoyed. I would quickly back off. She would approach again. Soooo yesterday I kept to myself more and she warmed up to me again. I was piddling around the house getting stuff done and she said
W I need to go run some errands and get some stuff done H ok have a good time W ok do we need anything? H I can’t hmthink of it right now W ok well I’m leaving H ok see ya. Enjoy yourself W ok bye (She leaves. Comes back in 45 seconds) W uhm. Do you wanna come with me? H sure why not.
We go run errands. Decide to stop for an ice cream. It was nice
